Parent Alert

Be aware of what your own current use of nicotine or alcohol may look like to your child. If you condemn teenage drinking but indulge in a few martinis after work, your child will spot the inconsistency right away. It's wise to practice what you preach.

Watch out if your child starts to show major changes in attitude and disposition. It may just be the preteen blues, but if your child becomes moody and secretive, and schoolwork starts to suffer, you'll want to investigate the possibility of drugs or alcohol in his life.

Talk to your children about everyday stuff and really try to listen. Then when you talk about important things you are more likely to have an impact. Otherwise, you won't be taken seriously.